‘What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create‘
I always known as a child, that there was something more for me in life, but I was so attached to my story of not being good enough and that I lacked confidence, the story robbed me of living the life I wanted for so many years.
From my teenage years into my thirties, I had made various attempts to change my life but with no real success. It’s only looking back now, I realise my story and fears were the reasons I couldn’t see myself with the life I wanted and had settled with what life gave me, never asking for anything more, until….
In December 2007 I received a phone call from a lady, (who to this day, I still don’t know who she was), offering me a business opportunity. Initially, I told her I wasn’t interested as I was committed to something else, but she insisted that I should to look at it anyway. This was how life coaching found me.
As I embarked on this journey into the coaching field, my life started going through a series of changes, with some positive and others looking anything but positive. Everything was impacted, my relationships, my job, finances and how I saw myself. It was at this point, I realised that my life was resetting and falling into place. This was the start of my awakening and awareness of self and beginning of the end of my fears and my ‘not good enough’ story.
‘Don’t judge me by my successes, judge me by the many times I fell down and got back up again‘
Life coaching was the contributory factor enabling me to release my story, build my confidence and let go of my fears, leaving me with the realisation that I could use my challenges to be of inspiration and support to others.
Coaching woke me up to my negative thinking. The way I thought about myself, other people and society. I believed I was my ‘not good enough’ story. Because of this belief, everything I did centred around this story, the relationships I had, my work life, my finances, what I could do, couldn’t do, could have or couldn’t have. Every decision I ever made, was based on this belief/story that I was ‘not good enough’. Even my lack of confidence was due to this story, believe it or not!
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined’
Henry David Thoreau
Some of the lessons I’ve learnt through this journey is:
- Be a good listener. If possible, a great listener, especially to yourself
- Listen fully to hear the wisdom in the message
- Don’t rush, slow down so that you can hear the wisdom from within
- Always treat yourself lovingly and kindly no matter what may be happening in your life
So, you are probably wondering, how does this help me?
If like me, you’ve talked yourself out of doing things you want to do, and you have always dreamt of something more for yourself but know you need to get past your fears, your negative beliefs and story. I can help you turn those challenges into triumphs.
You see, everything in our lives starts with a thought, which becomes a belief and filters into our actions or non-actions.
I can help you understand all that and turn it around.
Let me help You see your life differently.